If you’re a “people pleaser,” there’s always someone who’s going to take advantage of your willingness to help. There’s nothing wrong with being kind and helping others, but there is something wrong when you’re taken advantage of. If you want more out of life then stop being a martyr to selfish people and focus on associating yourself with people who value you and the talents you have to offer. Piss off a few people! They will get the message!